Engaging in real-estate/house rentals brings you into contact with a lot of friction from all sorts of people with their own agendas. This will wear you down until you get to a point where being passive and acquiescing to their terms starts to be a tempting solution.

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But to substitute low-grade friction in the place of necessary decisive action may feel good at first, but it costs you so much peace of mind in the long run.

I was lucky enough to work with a very good property manager who has decades of experience in the industry. During one particularly difficult stretch, with extremely problematic state housing officials, he gave me a piece of advice I have carried ever since:

“Life is only as good as the things you put up with.”

Now, I’ll be honest with you, putting this mindset into practice is every bit as stressful – as it is profoundly beneficial for your long term emotional and mental health outcomes.

I’m always thankful for my property manager’s advice and I buy him a gift every year on his birthday even though it’s been years since we’ve last worked together (I have exited out of that extremely difficult business).

His advice remains as one of the few most robust pieces of wisdom applicable across life domains.

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13 responses to “One Of The Best Pieces Of Advice I’ve Ever Gotten”

  1. Betty Avatar

    The lessons life teaches us. What you have shared, Mike iss such a powerful lesson, and one that really sticks! I like how you describe the balance between the short-term stress of making hard choices and the long-term peace that comes from not tolerating what drains you. โ€œLife is only as good as the things you put up withโ€ is the kind of advice that applies far beyond one situation โ€” thank you for sharing it!๐Ÿ•Š๏ธ
    Oh, by the way–that lawn is the greenest green I have ever seen! ๐Ÿ˜Š

    1. Michael Williams Avatar

      i’m glad you can find some usefulness to it Betty. my property manager would be happy ๐Ÿ™‚ more importantly, may we all avoid situations where that has to be used!

  2. ibarynt Avatar

    I’m borrowing that advice Mike. Thankyou. Now I can finally say I got solid advice from someone, lol.

    1. Michael Williams Avatar

      ๐Ÿ™‚ i’m glad you like it Iba. my property manager would be happy. more important, i hope you never have to use it or anyone in your family is ever that stressed to have to use it.

      1. ibarynt Avatar

        Mike you’re being really positive. Have you seen the world lately? ๐Ÿ˜

        1. Michael Williams Avatar

          ๐Ÿ˜‚ unfortunately, yes I have been exposed to it far too much.

  3. CJ Antichow Avatar
    CJ Antichow

    Itโ€™s great advice and really so true!! Iโ€™ll try โ€˜n remember that!

    1. Michael Williams Avatar

      thank you CJ! i hope you or anyone in the family never has to use it.

  4. justrojie Avatar

    i had a property manager for one of my old houses before selling it. and i was so thankful for that because they were able to hire the handy men for me at a great price and did excellent work, did all the background checks on potential tenants and went after those who didn’t pay… cause i ain’t got time for that.

    1. Michael Williams Avatar

      FACTS! ๐Ÿ™‚

  5. Edward Ortiz Avatar

    Thatโ€™s great advice. If you accept poor treatment, toxic relationships, and low standards, that becomes your reality, and life becomes a real pain.

    1. Michael Williams Avatar

      absolutely Edward. no one should have to take more than their fair share of low standards!

      1. Edward Ortiz Avatar

        Thatโ€™s true.

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